Get it Off My Chest

this is stewing, and im waiting for patricia to come home, but she isnt here and i need to go to work. her attitude is so very wrong. she has been using my shampoo/conditioner snice she moved in here (hers was nearly finished), ironically i was waiting for her to finish hers so that i could offer mine instead of her buying more. but no, she just goes ahead and uses it anyway. yesterday i finally asked her about it, and she laughed and said yes she had been using it and she was wondering how long it would take for me to say something. i said to her i would have offered when you ran out. why dont you use the ones that are in the cupboard? because she likes mine better -it has the olive in it.
what the???
so fucking what you like mine better? jesus. and how dare you say it all with the attitude that i am the one being selfish or childish if i have a problem with it.

this woman never does dishes, she has taken the rubbish out twice, she leaves her hair stuck all over the wall of the shower, she never vacuums or cleans the kitchen or the bathroom or toilet. if she did SOMETHING, i could accept it as consolation, but there is nothing.
and yes i should be saying this to her, but she isnt here.